Improving

I was having a conversation with a friend the other day and the topic of us dating came up. We got on this conversation because my Bishop's wife keeps bugging us both about dating each other. We were laughing because we both hear the same things from her a couple times a month. I hear all the time from her "you two should date" or "you two would have a lot of fun together" or "he's such a nice guy." I would agree with 2 out of 3 of those statements :) The one that I don't agree with is that me and this person should date. We are great friends, but there has never been any interest…from either of us. So as me and this person got on the conversation about dating he said something to me that hit me pretty hard. He said "I want to date/marry someone who makes me want to be a better person and we are just too much alike." I kind of looked at him not knowing what to say and he took my look as "I don't understand." He then proceeded to tell me again, but this time a little more bluntly. He said, yet again "I want to date/marry someone who makes me want to be a better person" and then he stopped, looked at me and said "and you don't do that." OUCH!!! I like when people are open and honest with me, but at this point I was wishing he was not open with me and had just kept his mouth shut or just kept it to the nicer version :) I went home that night wondering if I was a bad example or a bad person. Am I someone my parents would be proud of? Am I living the way I'm supposed to? Should I be doing things in my life differently? Where could I improve myself? As much as the end of the night kind of killed my mood and I started being really hard and down on myself I've been trying to use it as a motivator lately. I know there are things and places in my life where I can improve. There is always room for improvement...right?! :)